• Faith,  Identity

    Something More: Why You Feel Restless & What To Do About It

    Do you ever feel that restlessness inside? … The one that says, there’s gotta be more to life than this?

    I believe that’s what is meant when the Bible says that God “has set eternity in [our] hearts…” (Eccl. 3:11b).

    Something More: Why You Feel Restless, and What to Do About It | She Will Rise

    Too often, we tend to get caught up in our earthly life, and we forget that this earth isn’t our home. We are here for a purpose — one that’s so much greater than ourselves.

    It’s easy, in the busyness of our day-to-day, to fall for the lie that our lives our all about us. But they aren’t. God placed each one of us right where we are, at this point in time, surrounded by these people, “for such a time as this“. We have a role to play for His kingdom… a purpose He predestined for us before we were even born!

    So, that restlessness you feel? That’s your wake-up call, reminding you that you have work to do … that it’s time to stop living for yourself, and to start partnering with God so He can show you the special job He’s assigned to you.

    Can this work get done without you? Maybe. But, it won’t be in the way that God originally intended. And, think about it this way: You’ve got a unique blend of your own style & experiences that, perhaps, can reach someone better than anyone else could. So, these people could end up missing out, because you neglected to take up the role you were created for!

    Personally, I count it a privilege that God would want a messed-up gal like me to play a part in His kingdom building! You’d think that a perfect God would want perfect people to help Him with such an important job! But, nope … He recruits from the pit… from the mud & mire. While I may not see myself as equipped or qualified, God says, “Come on, girl! I’ll give you everything you need for the job. Just come as you are. It’s all good.” ♥

    So, the next time you feel that restlessness within, stop and ask God to make it clear to you what He has for you to do. I promise you, He’ll show you the way.

  • Identity,  Personal Development

    Who Do You Want To Be?

    Do you have an alter-ego — a vision in your mind of who you would like to become? Maybe you’ve made attempts to change and become that person by making lists of what you need to do to change into that version of yourself. But, what if there was a better way? What if, instead, you focused on the who, rather than the what?

    Who Do You Want To Be? | She Will Rise

    I came across this fantastic quote, a while back:

    Darren Hardy quote

    Powerful stuff. And, it ties right in with what James Clear says about identity-based habits.

    Nia, at SipBlack.net, also wrote about these identity-based habits. She says:

    “You need to become the kind of person who can reach those lofty goals. Be committed to embodying that individual. Then stop thinking like you, and start thinking like that other person… Create someone, if you must… If you won’t get it together, then becomesomeone who will.”

    Nia also writes:

    “Reinventing yourself makes you aware of the sheer power of the mind… you can become anyone you want, do anything you want.”

    So many times we try to begin with deciding to change our actions. And, while this might work for a time, many of us find ourselves falling back into the same old patterns.

    Taking on a new persona, however, is based on a mindset shift… and this, truly, is key to any lasting change.

    I think it’s important to remember here, that what is changing is what you do, when you do it, and how you do it. You aren’t necessarily changing your fundamental beliefs or values.

    For example, my own alter-ego is someone who still holds to Christian beliefs, and values Freedom & Authenticity. However, this “better me” is someone who:

    • follows a daily schedule
    • obeys God without hesitation
    • eats wholesome, nutritious food 90% of the time
    • is capable of defending herself, if need be
    • is confident and secure in who she is
    • etc.

    Basically, she excels where I often find myself lacking. In acting as though I am this other persona, I am just acting in the way I would truly prefer to be acting, anyway. In so doing, I’m leveling up!

    So, if you could reinvent yourself, who would you become? What does this better version of you look like? Feel free to comment below!